Five Element Relationships and Six Kinships — Reading Family Destiny from the Bazi Chart
Bazi destiny analysis can not only infer a person's career, wealth, and health but can also deeply analyze family relationships, known as the "Six Rel...
Bazi destiny analysis can not only infer a person's career, wealth, and health but can also deeply analyze family relationships, known as the "Six Relationships" (Liu Qin). The Six Relationships refer to blood relatives or marital relatives, including parents, siblings, spouse, and children. In the Bazi chart, each type of kinship has a corresponding Ten God symbol. By analyzing the flourishing or decline, position, and relationship to the Day Master of these Ten Gods, one can judge the depth of connection and quality of relationship between the person and the corresponding relative.
The parents stars: for a male chart, Indirect Wealth represents the father and Direct Resource represents the mother; for a female chart, Direct Wealth represents the father and Indirect Resource represents the mother. This is because the Wealth star represents the father's economic support function, while the Resource star represents the mother's educational protection function. If the parents stars in the chart are strong with roots, close to the Day Master, and unclashed, this indicates that the parents are healthy and long-lived and have a harmonious relationship with the person. If the parents stars are weak and restricted, far from the Day Master, or clashed or punished by other Stems and Branches, this indicates a thin connection with the parents, either early separation or distant relations.
For example, if a male chart has the Indirect Wealth star (father star) sitting in the Year Pillar and flourishing, this indicates that the father holds an important position in the family and has a profound influence on the person's upbringing. If the Indirect Wealth star is heavily restricted by Siblings, this indicates that the father's career has many setbacks, or that the person has a tense relationship with the father. Another example: if a female chart has the Direct Resource star (mother star) restricted by Wealth stars, forming a "Wealth breaks Resource" pattern, this often indicates that the mother's health is poor, or that there are economic or conceptual conflicts between the person and the mother.
The spouse star: for a male chart, Direct Wealth represents the wife; for a female chart, Direct Officer represents the husband. This is the basic setting of traditional destiny analysis, derived from the gender division of labor in ancient society: men attract spouses through economic ability, hence Wealth represents the wife; women attract spouses through virtue and propriety, hence Officer represents the husband. The state of the spouse star in the chart directly reflects marital quality. If the spouse star is pure and strong and serves as a Favorable God of the chart, the marriage is often happy and the spouse capable. If the spouse star is mixed and multiple and serves as an Unfavorable God, the marriage is often bumpy and the spouse connection thin.
The spouse palace is the Day Branch, because the Day Branch is the seat of the Day Master, representing the person closest to the Day Master. If the spouse palace is clashed (by the Month Branch or Hour Branch), this often indicates marital instability, easy divorce or separation. If the spouse palace is combined (by the Month Branch or Hour Branch), this indicates external interference in the marriage, or that the spouse is easily attracted by others.
The children stars: for a male chart, Seven Killings represents sons and Direct Officer represents daughters; for a female chart, Eating God represents sons and Hurting Officer represents daughters. This is because traditional thinking holds that sons inherit the father's authority (Officer/Killings), while daughters inherit the mother's talent (Output). In modern destiny analysis, there is also a practice of not distinguishing by gender and uniformly using the Output stars as children stars, because the Output is generated by the Day Master, representing the person's creation and continuation. If the children stars are strong and serve as Favorable Gods, the children are often filial and successful. If the children stars are weak and restricted and serve as Unfavorable Gods, the children connection is often thin, or there are difficulties in conception, or distant relations with the children.
The siblings stars are represented by Siblings (Bi Jian and Jie Cai). Friend represents same-gender siblings, and Rob Wealth represents opposite-gender siblings. If Siblings are numerous and strong in the chart, there are often many siblings. If Siblings are weak and restricted, there are often few siblings, or the relationships with siblings are not harmonious. Siblings also represent competition; a person with excessively strong Siblings in the chart easily has disputes with siblings over property or career.
The analysis of Six Relationships requires combining Ten Gods, palaces, flourishing/decline, and favorable/unfavorable factors. For example, when looking at the father, one must look not only at the Wealth star but also at the Year Pillar (the parents palace). When looking at the spouse, one must look not only at the spouse star but also at the Day Branch (the spouse palace). When looking at the children, one must look not only at the Output stars but also at the Hour Pillar (the children palace). Only by combining palaces with Ten Gods can precise judgments be made.
Bazi analysis of Six Relationships essentially simulates the energy interaction between people through Five Element relationships. It reveals the deep patterns of family relationships: why are some families harmonious and happy while others are full of conflict? Why do some people have deep connections with their parents while others part early? The answers to these questions often lie hidden in the Five Element configuration of the Bazi chart.